“I Cried When He Died”: Shonda Rhimes Is Still Deeply Impacted By K/i/l/ling One Grey’s Anatomy Character

Shonda Rhimes is reflecting on one of Grey’s Anatomy‘s most heartbreaking deaths, revealing that it still affects her years later. The long-running ABC medical drama has become famous for its emotionally devastating storylines, with many Grey’s Anatomy character deaths leaving a lasting impact on both viewers and the show’s cast and crew. Some of the more notable have ranged from Patrick Dempsey’s Derek to Scott Foley’s Henry, James Remar’s Jimmy and Giacomo Gianniotti’s DeLuca.

In a recent conversation with Entertainment Weekly, Rhimes adm itted that she has never truly gotten over writing Denny Duquette’s (Jeffrey Dean Morgan) death. The Grey’s Anatomy

 creator talked about how deeply she connected with his storyline, revealing she cried during filming and even struggled to be on set as it played out. Rhimes also explained how Denny’s fate was planned out from the very start, saying, “It was one of the first times that we had a board where […] I was saying, ‘We’re going to meet this guy who’s dying young.'” Read her full comments below:

I don’t think I’ve ever gotten over killing Denny, ever. I cried when he died. Literally, I cried when they were shooting it. I couldn’t be on the stage. I cried beforehand. I knew it was the story, and it was one of the first times that we had had a board where, at the beginning of the season, I was saying, “We’re going to meet this guy who’s dying young.”

And then, at the end of the season, we had on the board, it said, “Dying young guy dies young.” And I was like, “And that’s what we’re doing.” And when we got to dying young guy dies young, I was like, “Oh my God, it’s going to have to happen.” Because I loved his relationship with Izzie. I thought it was great.

What Denny’s Death Meant For Grey’s Anatomy

Denny’s arc in Grey’s Anatomy season 2 was a defining moment for the show, delivering one of the most heartbreaking and iconic storylines in the 20-year-long run of the medical drama. His fate cemented the show’s reputation for delivering emotional gut punches, particularly as it was one of the first major deaths in the show, preparing the audience for future heartbreak involving beloved characters. Grey’s Anatomy has since delivered an array of devastating deaths, but Denny’s remains one of the most unforgettable.

As a heart transplant patient, Denny formed an intense bond with Izzie, resulting in a whirlwind romance that saw her risk everything to save his life. When he proposed to her in the episode “17 Seconds”, it seemed like there was finally hope for Izzie and Denny’s relationship, only for tragedy to strike in the season finale, when he unexpectedly died from a stroke. His death didn’t just have an impact on fans, it also shaped Izzie’s character in major ways.

She resigned from the hospital in season 3, but eventually returned and tried to move on. However, his death continued to haunt her in unexpected ways, including when Izzie hallucinated Denny when she was diagnosed with cancer

. Rhimes’ comments show that his death wasn’t just impactful on viewers but also on those behind the scenes. Her struggle with letting go of the character speaks to how powerful his storyline was, making it clear why viewers still talk about it almost 20 years later.

Our Take On The Impact Of Denny’s Death

Even with Grey’s Anatomy now well into season 22, Denny’s death still stands as one of its most heart-wrenching moments. It is clear that although Denny’s death was devastating for Rhimes, the creator had a larger plan in mind. With his death, Rhimes proved that the show was unafraid of challenging its audience with raw, emotional narratives involving fan-favorite characters. Looking back, Denny’s arc was a perfect example of what Grey’s Anatomy does best, blending romance, heartbreak, and high-stakes drama in a way that has a long-lasting impact on its audience.