Stabler Asked Benson What Their Relationship Is on L&O: “How About We Call It…”

Benson attempted to define their relationship during an emotional moment on Law & Order: Organized Crime.
In the middle of asking Olivia Benson if she and her son wanted to come over to celebrate Christmas together, Elliot Stabler got some much-needed clarification on his relationship with his former partner. And it’s one of the most poignant Bensler moments ever.
The scene in question — from Season 2, Episode 9 of Law & Order: Organized Crime (“The Christmas Episode”) — is another emotional moment between Christopher Meloni’s Stabler and Mariska Hargitay’s Benson. (As fans know, there have been plenty of those over the years.)
In the episode, Benson successfully helped Stabler track down his missing son. At this point, the wounds of Stabler abandoning Benson professionally 10+ years ago were starting to heal. Even still, Benson was treading lightly on how much time she spent with Stabler.
“Thank you for being there, again, when I needed you,” Stabler told Benson in this scene.
“…I want to find balance here, in this. Whatever this is,” he continued, referring to their unspoken bond.
After taking a few seconds to gather her thoughts, Benson had an answer.
“How about we call it a friendship?” she offered. “How’s that for now?”
A rare smile then came across Stabler’s face. “Hey, my friend Olivia,” he began. “I’d like you and your son Noah to come on over to my place this weekend for a family Christmas get-together.”
All Benson could muster was a shocked, “Wow.”
“Please,” said Stabler.






